Online Dating Websites Mistakes Users Make
Want to find out what you need AVOID the next time you start messaging that girl you think is cute?
Read this and it just might save you from getting rejected!
Mistake #1: Sending her ‘just’ a wink
There are dating sites that let you send her the “winks” on your behalf. This does not last a good impression on her. When she gets your wink she will definitely think that you really want to contact her and too cheap to fork over the $20 membership fee. That’s not a good way to start a relationship.
She will be receiving too many winks everyday so why would she waste her time in your winks when there are lots of guys that can send her the real message.
Mistake #2: Not having a recent quality photo in your profile
This is a fact but mostly men hesitate in uploading their profile pictures. Profiles with photos get 10 times more looks than those without and profile with quality pictures get four times than profile with poor pictures.
Men always search for women sites that have a good profile picture. So why do you think that there is any difference? Women think that if you are not posting your photo then there must be something you are hiding from her… may be your wife.
If you don’t have any good photo, there are professional photo services in the market that can create great photos for your profile. If you really want to have the chance of other guys then upload a quality photo.
Upload the recent one beacuse it is always disappointing to meet a person that looks 20 years younger only in his profile picture.
Mistake #3: Sending a message with a boring subject
Good looking girls get dozens of winks everyday. There are chances that you have the great profile with the intriguing message but she never sees it. The reason is simple that there are lots of other people approaching her in a good way. Give her a reason to open your message. This means that your message should be designed in the best way and there are no chances that it gets deleted.
Come up with a catchy subject line. Spend as much time on the subject line as you spend on crafting the message. Ask her some question from her profile to make her realize that you have read her profile and are more interested in her personality than the looks.
Mistake #4: Sending her a vague, generic or otherwise lame message
You always make an effort to become the member of the online dating website. You make the mistake by creating one message and sending the same to dozens of girls.
Here you need to know about the reality check.
Women love to feel special to someone. Their instincts in this matter are so sharp that they can sense a lame message from a mile away. For this you need to keep your message short and comprehensive. Complement or comment about the things that you find attractive in her profile. Conclude each message with a complete call of action to make her believe that you are seriously interested in her.
Don’t leave her in a doubtful state like “talk to you soon” or “drop me a line.”
Mistake #5: Taking too long to respond to her message
Replying promptly is not a bad thing as it will make you stand out from dozens of guys. Women are attracted towards the confident men and those who are comfortable in their own skin.